A pair of shoes and life

   

    The shoes that I'm going to talk about are not the shoes that will be worn but about the meaning of shoes for life. You are definitely familiar with shoes, right, footwear to protect our feet so that we are not exposed to dust, soil, glass, stones, asphalt and other things below or what we can more precisely step on. Why are there two shoes? Because we have two feet, so we also have to have 2 shoes or what we usually call a pair. If we choose shoes, the first thing we think about is comfort, no matter how good the shoes are, if they are not comfortable, then the shoes will not be used. Comfort can be measured from the size of the shoe or the material used for the shoe. There is a saying, "if you wear shoes and they are too small, change the shoes, not make the feet smaller." It's like life if we feel uncomfortable with someone because maybe that person is not the right person for us instead of us having to change because of that person.

 Life may not always be what we expect but if not with him we can still then why not. If he really is not our destiny, why do we maintain things that are hurting us, would it be better for us to find a replacement who is able to appreciate all our efforts and give good feedback as we hope for. If he is not a goal but he has been a stone path that we step on to achieve our goals. 

So, let there be no hate even though he has many wounds. He has taught important lessons until we get to the point we hope for. The point is, don't force things that are not in their portion, if we are indeed at 40 then why should we use 38.