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  Complaining is a natural and human thing that is experienced by every human being on this earth. someone once said "complaining its okay but never give up" this sentence may be very familiar or we have often heard but without us realizing this sentence greatly affects our lives. With this sentence we become more and more often complaining without a clear reason or according to what we are experiencing. Complaining is normal but if we complain a lot it will become a bad habit if we continue to do it. It has even been explained in the Qur'an Surah al-Ma'arij: 19 which means "Indeed, humans were created to be grouchy and miserly". It is very clearly explained that complaining is an innate trait but, it would be nice if we can reduce this trait which certainly has a positive influence on us. A Men and woman all have this trait but most women often or always apply this trait in life. Often complaining sometimes makes us forget that we have Allah SWT. The ...

   Wasteful or wasting money is a bad thing and is certainly hated by Allah SWT. This trait often appears when we have a lot of excess assets so that we seem to forget the underprivileged people out there who still need clothing, food and proper housing.  We really need to realize that extravagance is a despicable trait. The prohibition of this wasteful nature is explained in the Qur'an Surah Al-Isro' verse 27: "Indeed, the wasteful person is the brother of Satan and the devil is a complete disbeliever in his Lord." And it is also explained in a hadits narrated by Muslim which reads: "Verily Allah is pleased with three things for you and is angry when you do three things. Allah is pleased if you worship Him , and ( Allah is pleased ) if you hold on to Allah 's rope completely and advise one another against the rulers who govern your affairs. Allah is angry if you are busy with rumors, asking a lot of useless questions, and wasting wealth."  Wasteful n...

                         Gossip or ghibah is a despicable trait that we often do, consciously or unconsciously. There is even or almost no gathering in an assembly without gossip or what we call backbiting. Among the two groups or two groups that are most intense in gossiping are women. Because they tend to be chatty and envious, many of them talk about the good or the bad of a person. In the Qur’an Surah Al Hujurat verse 12 “And let not some of you look for the bad things of people and gossip about one another. Is there anyone among you who likes to eat the flesh of his dead brother? Then of course you feel disgusted with him. And fear Allah.” We can see that backbiting is a bad thing to do and we need to avoid it. The prohibition of gossip was also conveyed by several scholars as conveyed by Imam Tirmidhi which reads “Whoever restrains gossip against his brother, then Allah will save his face from the fire of hel...

  You’re Ashamed your crown, oh woman If the sky was dim like that night If the sea rippled against the waves like that night If the earth cheered against a storm like that night My heart beats sweetly hearing your whisper The body's response is the opposite of what I had in mind I fall keep falling and keep falling if I long for you Your turban, your khimar, your robe, seems to anesthetize me to keep looking at you God forgive me who can't erase the shadow God allow me to make her an angel in my life One of the characteristics of God that makes me not afraid to get it is that he is shy.      Shame is a word that is not foreign to us, it is even very familiar among the community and teenagers, but do you realize what the real meaning of shame is and what is the relationship between shame and Islam and also with women? let's discuss thoroughly. Shame is a form of human emotion, shame has various meanings, namely an emotion of understanding, state...